If you are a man who thinks it’s funny to make misogynist jokes purely to make your female friends uncomfortable/angry, then you are a misogynist. It is not “just a joke.” You literally are finding humor in the discomfort and dehumanization of women. You are not helping, you are not making satire. You are just being misogynist.
Yes, this includes you gay men.
I get so mad when animal eaters say things like “Aww so cute” or “Look at those innocent eyes” or “Omg I love them” about animals they kill, eat and exploit everyday. Like you have no right to adore that animal and pretend you love and care for them.